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[white_widow]

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[white_widow]

If you manage to find locks that I cannot get through, I will be more impressed than I have been since I was six years old.

[coolcostumes]

that sounds like a challenge that i'm going to take.

[white_widow]

I was hoping you might say that.

[coolcostumes]

you just have to pick the locks. no breaking the door.

[white_widow]

Ugh, again with the insults. The only thing I have ever broken in your home I replaced.
I would not break the door, anyway, that would leave you with even LESS security.

[coolcostumes]

it wasn't an insult, just a thing! just in case i got such good locks that you got frustrated and kicked it with your boot.

[white_widow]

You think me kicking your door would break it?
Okay, that makes up for the insult.

[coolcostumes]

i think you are much stronger than you look.

[white_widow]

Well, that is true.

[coolcostumes]

and you are very confident.

[white_widow]

I have earned it with every scar.

[coolcostumes]

hey not arguing with that. just an observation. one day maybe i'll be that confident.

[white_widow]

I hope it comes more easily to you than it did to me. By several thousand leagues, ideally.

[coolcostumes]

thanks, me too. but i think on a good path there. things are improving confidence wise.

[white_widow]

Oh, yes? Is this because you're training more, or just doing a lot more affirmations in the mirror or something?

[coolcostumes]

i don't do that second one!

( much. )

[white_widow]

No? I have heard it can be very effective.

[coolcostumes]

do you do it?

[white_widow]

I have tried. It was not so effective for me.

[coolcostumes]

i think i'd just end up laughing at myself if i did it.

[white_widow]

Most of them do seem to be intentionally worded to sound like the most ridiculous nonsense ever.

[coolcostumes]

i'd get mad at myself for laughing at myself.

[white_widow]

The couple times I tried, I would say a few things, and then I would look at myself and be like 'I'm supposed to listen to you? You are a crazy weirdo.' Counterproductive.
Although, you know, I do not HATE being a crazy weirdo, all of the time.

[coolcostumes]

see what you need or what we both need is someone else to say those things to. like you say them to me and i go YEP YOU ARE AWESOME

[white_widow]

You know, I think that is not a bad idea.
It will probably feel ridiculous at the beginning, but long run...